The Greatest Downfall

Let's talk about love's DOWNFALL---Jealousy. It imprisons every relationship; If you don't want your relationship to die, you must get out of it very fast. It brings you intense feelings of resentment that triggers and ignites anger. It burns a hole in your heart, and it's always too late to save yourself from the ignition. This feeling that comes from love can so easily destroy it. Actually, it's that you see a person as your rival; the real rival regarding jealousy is yourself. Victims of Jealousy are usually threaten by rivals that they thought are taking away what is rightfully theirs. Jealousy is really a painful emotion; you can't escape from being hurt at any ways. This feeling is too difficult to dislodge, and we must be very careful. It's really hard to be jealous, it brings instability in your life. Some are just insecure of others that's why they tend to be jealous. But the more jealous you get, the more you destabilize yourself. It is right to control jealousy within yourself, that will be very hard but still, you have to take a risk and TRY. Some says that when you're jealous, you just care for the one you love...It is true, but the more you love and be possessive, you become unlovable. Relationships couldn't survive without doubts, and in doubts jealousy feeds. Sometimes, we just have to take a pause to reconfigure ourselves before jealousy eats us all up. The more you get involve in this feeling of selfishness, the more weak you'd be. Many think that the more you can control you loved one, the more powerful you'll be--is not true; But the more you become powerless and devoured by selfishness---Enough power to save yourself and the other live free. Jealousy enables you to move on and think the same thing over again. The same obsession, the same delusions, and the same uncertainty. Looking at the good side of Jealousy, it's an expression of caring. It makes you aware about how much love would you invest in a relationship, to guide your heart. THINK. If jealousy's playing with your heart, you gotta PLAY like a PRO and be smart.

"People can handle disappointment without feeling like a total loser. The only way to eliminate the pain of loss is to eliminate value, and you can't do that because then life would not be worth living." -Psychology Today

Don't live IN Jealousy; Live ALONGSIDE Jealousy.

-S.Reyes

THINK. CALM DOWN, CALM DOWN.

*the picture was taken by yours truly, Sam Reyes